Are you ready?
It’s time for a new parenting normal!
Together, we’ll leave behind the yelling, overwhelm, and paralyzing frustration!
Do you feel pushed to your absolute limit? Like you can’t give another ounce of yourself?
Is it time for everyone to listen (probably your partner, too) BEFORE you’re yelling?
Are you overwhelmed with burning the candle at…all…the ends?
And what if nothing works before it’s too late? Will you make it through these years with a relationship that is salvageable? We’ve seen the adult child “no contact” Tiktoks.
You are a big hearted parent, who wants the world for your kids, but you’re still missing each other somehow?
How are you supposed to get them to HEAR you?
Could you make some small changes that bring big results?
Yes, you can.
And it’s not too late to start! This information has been kept in professional circles for far too long.
How do I know?
Because I’ve done it! I’m a therapist and behavior specialist, but my most important credential is that I’m a parent.
Every day, I help teachers and parents care for children, and I’ve realized that what gets taught to parents in therapy rooms and classrooms all across the country, is what ALL parents need to calm their homes and change their lives!
This information has been kept in professional circles alone for far too long. It’s time to leave the gatekeeping behind so you can care for yourself and your kids well.
The best part?
It’s so much easier than you think to solve even the problems that feel unsolvable and build a strong and healthy relationship with their child.
This is the day you say goodbye to yelling, feeling ignored, bribing, and worrying about what kind of people your kid, or kids, will grow up to be.
Introducing …
I see you.
You want a healthy and trusting relationship with your children – based on love, care, respect, working together, and dare I say…being on the same team!
You just want to protect them…but it’s hard when you see them barreling toward big mistakes, especially when they aren’t listening to your advice.
You want them to learn to take care of their spaces…but everything from taking out the trash to putting away their toys becomes a draining power struggle.
You just want them to put on the dang jacket to go out into the cold … but it becomes a battle of wills.
You want to spend quality time with them…but parenting through all these challenges means you’re fighting instead of connecting like you want to.
Calm your Home, Change your Life will give you the tools, strategies, and overall roadmap to get on the same page as your kid, to calm your home, and well … change your life.
No more …
Figuring out which advice to take.
Sorting through your saved videos on Instagram or TikTok.
Wondering how the influencers or your friends make it look so easy.
With this course, the most current research and science-backed strategies come to you in one convenient package.
When you have that overall roadmap, and the strategies to implement them, there’s nothing you and your child can’t figure out together!
OUT with the outdated information, random tips and tricks without any real science, and IN with proven human behavior strategies, real mental health tools that work, and judgement free parenting! *side by side*
You don’t have to continue struggling. Instead, get the tools necessary to build up you, your child, and your relationship every day.
After some embarrassing on-field meltdowns, we realized our little guy needed a season away from his favorite sport to work on some coping skills. That was hard for all of us. Kirsty helped us do that, and now we’re back on the field! We all look forward to his games now, and I don’t wake up with knots in my stomach because I don’t know what version of my son his team will get that day. Now, we have a plan for when he has “big feelings.”
-A’s mom
My teenage daughter and I lived parallel lives. If we got too close, emotionally or just spending too much time together, we would start to fight. She was left to solve some of her own problems without me, and I constantly worried about her. She saw Kirsty for therapy, and after some parent coaching, I feel much better about how connected we are. I always wanted a close relationship with my daughter, and now I can say we have that. I’m not saying it’s perfect, because we both still have hard days, but now we know how to recover from them and move.
-D’s mom
You’re caring for your kids, but if you’re here (HI!), you know that SOMETHING is not working.
Stop throwing spaghetti and the wall and seeing what sticks, and no more chaos.
You’re tired, but help has arrived.
Through almost two decades of working in schools, and directly with parents, I’ve discovered simple processes and small tweaks that deliver big results for families.
It’s just not the unsolvable problem that it feels like sometimes! Human behavior is human behavior, and in this program you’ll learn how to apply it to your family.
I’m going to teach you:
How to monitor and adjust the “emotional thermostat” of your home (someone’s gotta do it, seriously)
How to care for yourself as a parent (you have no idea how much this helps)
How to work through conflict with your kids, and repair your relationship (better than ever before)
How to navigate parenting when you and spouse come from homes with different parenting styles
In Calm your Home, Change your Life, I’m handing you the roadmap to a calm and connected parenting journey.
If I’m being honest, 85% of parenting conflicts can be resolved with the first three modules. They are seriously just that powerful!
Module 1: Your Parenting Destination
This module is the groundwork for supporting yourself and your child. It’s the foundation of childhood behavior management in almost all settings. This is where you decide what kind of parent you want to be, and how you want to get there.
Best of all, you don’t have to do it alone.
You’ll learn about …
Building Parental Confidence
Scripting your Truths
Taking Morality out of Parenting
Functions of Behavior
ABC’s of Child Behavior
Childhood Confidence
Monitoring and adjusting the “Emotional Thermostat” of the Hom
Module 2: Vehicles for Cooperative Parenting
A calm and connected family begins with how you design the environment. In this module, you’ll learn how to set up your home life for success.
You’ll learn about …
Schedules and Routines
Motivation (Child and Caregiver)
Tier 1 Behavior Supports
Routine sheets, Boards, Charts
Rewards
Target Behaviors and Replacement Behaviors
Module 3: The Pleasant Parenting Toolkit/Mindful Parenting Packing List
On the parenting journey, it’s important you pack the right tools. In this module, you’ll learn how to make parenting not only manageable but mindful and fun for you and your little ones..
You’ll learn about …
Conflict and Refusal
Be a detective
Assume positive intent
Co-regulation
Emotional Check-ins
Zones of regulation
Emotional thermometer
When and how to teach coping skills
Restorative Practices
Module 4: Your Unique Path/Itinerary
Kids, parents, and parenting, are not one-size-fits-all. You and your child (or children!) are unique, and Module 4 gives that extra layer of education and support for some of the journey’s unique circumstances.
You’ll learn about …
Parenting Neurodivergent Children
School (Testing and Support)
Parenting Highly Sensitive Children
Module 5: Troubleshooting the Journey
Even with the best laid plans, every journey has challenges, roadblocks, and reroutes. In this module, we explore, what to do if things “don’t work” to understandwhat could be going wrong, especially when the reasons for challenging behavior are less than obvious, and the options for more support if you or your child need it.
You’ll learn about …
Implementation Supports
Parental Supports
Next Steps
Total Value (so far): $2250
Every module comes with video lessons, printables, worksheets, and in-person support.
These tools are usually kept behind the closed doors of counseling offices and the barriers of high cost one-on-one sessions.
If all this was delivered to you like that in individual sessions, the total cost would range from $2250 and $2500 and at least 15 hours of counseling sessions … and that’s not taking into account travel time, scheduling headaches, time off from work and home.
But I don’t believe in gatekeeping the tools that can transform your family’s life forever.
You can get this pathway to peace in your home for only $497.
I was referred to Kirsty by a childhood friend, and we worked with her on parenting our toddler. I’m also a school administrator, so I wear a LOT of hats. In addition to putting my mind at ease with my daughter, Kirsty’s training has helped me care for my teachers on my campus. Small changes brought big results with behavior, and now we all have more confidence when a child has a hard moment.
-KL
I was referred to Kirsty by a childhood friend, and we worked with her on parenting our toddler. I’m also a school administrator, so I wear a LOT of hats. In addition to putting my mind at ease with my daughter, Kirsty’s training has helped me care for my teachers on my campus. Small changes brought big results with behavior, and now we all have more confidence when a child has a hard moment.
-KL
I was referred to Kirsty by a childhood friend, and we worked with her on parenting our toddler. I’m also a school administrator, so I wear a LOT of hats. In addition to putting my mind at ease with my daughter, Kirsty’s training has helped me care for my teachers on my campus. Small changes brought big results with behavior, and now we all have more confidence when a child has a hard moment.
This course is not for…
Kids themselves.
Parents with a fixed mindset of “we’ve always done it this way,”
Parents who believe “my parents did it this way, and I turned out fine!”
Those who believe parenting is one-size-fits all.
Parents who want to hold on to outdated or authoritarian strategies.
But if you’re a parent who…
Knows something isn’t quite working in their family
has a flexible growth mindset
keeps an open mind to the newest (and most effective) research
understands that each child needs to be parented differently
Desires to have a calm and connected life at home and everywhere else with your kids
This course is for you.
If there was one last thing I wish I would tell you..it is that there is a better way.
These simple human behavior principles can change everything about the way you interact with your child.
Can you imagine productive conversations with your child? Calm and kind conversations that end in real changes in your child’s behavior, instead of the only tool within arm’s reach being “because I said so.” (Because we both know that doesn’t go well.)
Right now, you’re struggling with a strained relationship, your child feeling misunderstood and shamed, and you feeling guilty.
You keep thinking you should know better. You excel in so many areas of your life, and solve all kinds of problems, but this one is stumping you … and it’s taking over your life (not in a good or manageable way)!
There is a way to change the culture of your parenting right now, to get on the same team as your kid, and to work through these conflicts together.
This is a critical time in your child’s life and your parenting journey.
Your child’s brain (and your relationship with that brain and heart) is still developing! There’s no better time than now to make changes in how you and your child engage with each other.
The sooner you make those changes, the faster you’ll see transformation .
It’s time to start your journey to a calmer home.
And if you act now, you can even join Calm Your Home, Change Your Life with a payment plan – making it more easier than ever to get the support you need at a price you can afford.
I’m Kirsty!
I’m a licensed therapist, and I coach (and care for!) people who care for children. I do that in schools, in the therapy room, for families in transition, and more. But I’m also a parent. I’ve been in your shoes, and I’ve supported people in your shoes for almost two decades.
I have experience with children (and parents!) who:
kids with big feelings and strong emotions
have ADHD
who act before thinking
who struggle with listening and following through with basic instructions
teenagers (need I say more)
toddlers
tweens (and supporting parents as they support children through puberty)
have divorced parents and now grow up in two homes
struggle with executive functioning
kids who struggle with impulsivity
recieve special services at school
kids who have had traumatic experiences
I’d love to help you feel supported and cared for as you transform your relationship with your child.
How does this program work?
This program is delivered in bite sized videos for each topic. It can be done in little slivers of time, or longer sittings, whatever works for you! In addition, every one of them comes with a strategy that can be implemented immediately.
If you have any trouble implementing it, we have a support line. When we say you’re not alone, we mean it!
What’s the guarantee or refund policy?
We have a 30-day money back guarantee. To qualify, you simply need to have accessed the course and implemented one strategy. If you get that far and it’s not working for you, you can reach out to us for a refund!
What’s the cost + payment plan options?
You get lifetime access to all the lessons, worksheets, and printables for just $497. So you can revisit this information for years to come.
You can also join with a payment plan starting at $85 per month for 6 months.
What if I have/struggle with implementing this? What if I get stuck? Or it doesn’t work for us?
Every problem has a solution, and we’re here to solve problems with you on our support line! Complete the form in the help line module to schedule an appointment and get a personal meeting to navigate your trouble.
How do I know if this is for me?
Do you feel emotionally connected to your child? Do you have faith that your child listens and heeds your protective advice? Can you and your child communicate effectively, most of the time? Can you and your child solve problems without yelling and slamming doors, most of the time? If not, this course can help you build those skills and create a healthy relationship with your child that lasts.
How much time should I commit to this?
As much or as little as you would like! You can start at the beginning, or jump ahead to a specific topic for immediate relief. For best results, we recommend starting with 15 minutes a day, a few times a week, and implementing the action step with each video.
What results should I expect?
It only takes a change in one person’s behavior to change a dynamic in a relationship. You’re here, and you’re it. And you got this! Be ready for clear communication, less guilt (for both of you!), less yelling, and a closer connection.
How do I sign up?
Click here for one-time payment (with discount!)
Click here for payment plan options.
Remember:
Kids are not monsters, parents are not the enemy, and every problem has a solution!
This year you could…
feel better than ever before about your parenting
lessen your own stress
trust your child more, and allow them to trust you more
communicate well, kindly and clearly, and STILL get the results you want
It starts with believing there’s a better way, and seeing that your family is ready for the next level. I believe in you, now believe in yourself.
You’re not in this alone anymore.
Help is here.
Join Calm Your Home, Change Your Life today.
